Relationship: Anambra Girls Considers These Veriables Before Dating Any Guy.
There is this stereotype about Igbo girls, which according to many, describes most Igbo girls as being too materialistic in a relationship. In some quarters, this might be true, but being materialistic in relationship means different thing entirely to an average Igbo girls. Most anambra girls, use wealth as a way of measuring how responsible a guy is, and his readiness for a long lasting relationship. And not just Anambra girls, this happens virtually to every other ethnic groups, a lot of people tends to accord more respect to successful guys, and score them high in responsibility.
So, most times when pretty Igbo girls expect you to at least be able to afford average life, don’t take it as them being too materialistic, because it’s all for the best. They often use it to checkmate the kind of guy you are, if you can really take care of yourself first, take good care of her if eventually you guys proceed into a relationship, or how you can properly plan and take good care of a family if the knot is eventually tied between both of you. Although I’m not doubting the fact that they are a lot of girls out there that have totally materialized relationship, but they are many others, who might just use it to measure a lot of qualities the need in a man.
They are a lot of things that many Igbos girls, Anambra girls in particular will consider before dating any guy. Although people’s criteria for selecting or accepting a proposal of being in a relationship with a guy differs, some are more popular and considered a common factor.
The guy must know what he wants.
Most Igbo girls, Anambra girls in particular, always wants to date a guy that at least knows where he’s going (i.e have a set of life goals, dreams and aspirations) that he wants to achieve in his life time. They like to know if you’re future in the right track to a successful one, or on the way to poverty. Most Anambra girls don’t use educational qualifications to rate guys that they can date, as long as you have a good hand work, or a business, more especially successful ones, it shows that you have a good dream for yourself, and they will always want to be part of that dream.
Guys who know how to give compliment.
Most Igbo girls love guys that appreciate them and give them mind blowing compliment. They are a whole lot of compliments that if you use them on Igbo girls, you will found them falling into your arms. e.g acharaugo, ulamma, ugegbem, udarammicha, oyoyo nwanyioma, etc. You can use alternative English compliment, if you don’t understand Igbo, e.g my Christmas morning, the only thing that gives me Joy, etc.
Guys that are not stingy
Anambra girls can hardly date stingy girls, and likewise many other girls, I mean, what’s the point of being in a relationship with a guy that hardly buy something for you, or take you out to maybe a dinner or somewhere else to catch fun. Relationship is based on giving and taking of different things which includes love, gifts, money and lots more. So if you’re a stingy type of guy, just bear it in mind, that your dream pretty Anambra girl will not date you.
Sensitive guys
Most Anambra girls like sensitive guys i.e guys that understand them, guys that pay attention to them, guys that have time for them. So you might loose your pretty Igbo girlfriend, if you don’t at least have the above qualities to some extent. Because some Igbo girls don’t take money as everything they need in their relationship, so if you’re in a relationship with an average Igbo girl, you might want to step up a bit in this areas.
Successful guys
Many Igbo girls, Anambra girls in particular likes successful guys. Guys that have hit the numbers, guys that are successful In business, and own a lot of properties and luxurie cars. And as I said earlier that is not as if most Igbo girls are too materialistic in relationships, they actually do it for many purpose and also to encourage poor guys to hustle better.
So if you want to date an Igbo girl, more especially an Anambra girl, you should at least have some of this qualities.
Note: many people have different criteria that defines who they’ll consider for a relationship, what I stated here are based on my personal assumption based on my knowledge of Igbo girls and what they like, and what I perceiveed as popular culture.
