WHY MODERN MARRIAGES ARE COLLAPSING

Why are men refusing to get married these days?

Why are so many women who have it all do not have husbands even in their 40s?

These are not accidents.

These are as a result of REBELLION.

When women abandon their feminine nature, they abandon the very thing that makes marriage attractive.

Modern women are taught to act like men, compete with men, be equal to men and fight men.

Now, women are confused as to why men no longer want to marry them.

Men can’t lead or protect women who see them as opponents and competitors.

Men are not afraid of marriage. They are worried about fighting their rebellious wives in their own homes every day.

Marriage is no longer seen as an act of love but as business by most women.

If you make millions of cash, buy me cars and solves all my financial worries before I can be submissive to a man; then that’s not submission but extortion!!!

Submission is not earned. Submission is chosen. You choose to be submissive or not to be submissive.

If a woman wants to get everything from a man before respecting him, then that’s stupid because no man can give you everything you want.

You can’t have the benefits of marriage without the responsibilities. The responsibilities are submission, service, sacrifice and loyalty.

You can’t build a home where one partner is committed while the other is entitled.

You can’t see submission as slavery and expect a happy marriage.

Submission becomes her enemy and no man marries an enemy.

You can’t build a future with a woman who hates orderliness.

A man’s marriage is the most expensive investment he will ever make. So, he wants to be sure he is investing rightly.

Marriage with a rebellious woman is suicidal. No matter how much you put into it, it’s destined to collapse.

Modern men would prefer to die in peace alone than to stay with rebellious wives.

Women claim to be proudly independent until it’s time to pay the bills alone, raise the kids alone or die alone.

Their funerals are filled with regrets.

God did not design women to live and die alone. Independence was never the goal.

Women are fighting for relevance and no man fights for relevance in his own home.

In today’s dating markets, too many women are not looking for love. They are looking for financial saviours.

Men have come to realise all these and that’s why they are not getting married as they used to.

🖋️ Rev. Dr. Ambang Lawrence Okpa, DR-FIGPCM (PhD)